Wednesday, December 17, 2014

Adjusting isn't that difficult its just a process!


This year is coming to end very quickly; thus much of my main focus has been on the end of December and the highly anticipate, upcoming New Year to come. This time last year, I had no clue what I was going to do. I was confused, angry, scared and overall; I tended to plan less than I do now. However, looking back over the past year (2014), I would have to say that it was the beginning of great things to come for me as well as a new beginning for my family. I have accomplished so much already, as I began the pursuit of my dreams. In 2014 I found myself, overcame my fears and started believing in “me” again.

 In total, I have completed 9 classes so far  here at Full Sail University and  currently have a 3.75 G.P.A. Looking back, I just can’t believe I’m saying that now because school was not on my radar last year. I’m starting my own business “Brown Bag Management and Media & Entertainment”. In the early 2000’s, I had a company called “Brown Bag Productions” that only dealt with music production. Everyone around Delaware still remembers the name and often refer to me as “Brown Bag”. I’ve been trying to think of a new name as of late, but I haven’t had any luck. So I think I will continue to build on the brand that I started some time ago.

Reflecting on the saying "What doesn't kills you make you stronger" is a true statement. I've added to that statement by adding the word "adjust" which means to put in good working order or bring to a proper state or position. For me, rehab and therapy showed me how much strength and will power I had mentally. I also had to adjust to my “new” life with a disability. In my case at the time, all I used to do was focus on what I couldn’t do although, it does take time   to ‘adjust”, the length of time I took, I was mentally paralyzed. At the time, I felt that I didn’t have anyone showing me how to “overcome” or “deal with” what I was feeling emotionally inside. What I did was created mini challenges for myself. As I completed each challenge, I increased the difficulty. It's like playing a video game on the easy level and then moving up to middle level and etc.  Adjustment is a process, and once you “adjust” mentally, physically, and emotionally you will overcome the obstacle of starting again.


Today's motivational clip is about Richie Parker. He works for NASCAR Racing Team. His story inspired me to dream and I pray it does the same for you.

2 comments:

  1. Kenneth,

    I have only skimmed the surface of your story, but it is a powerful one! I can relate too, I was in the worst place, mentally for a long time. The past year has been impactful and inspiring, I have done a complete one-eighty over the past year and a half. Having dreams and aspirations are necessary to obtain happiness and success, I've learned this, slowly but surely! Starting again is hard, but absolutely worth it. When you have a dream and want to achieve it, nothing gets in your way. We all can help each other too, my dream is connected to yours and yours to mine, in some way, so on and so forth. People are powerful, hence why networking is a huge aspect of obtaining your success. I wish you all the best and good luck!

    Zachary

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    1. Thank you Zach! We didn't get a chance to talk in class, however I'm going to make an effort to touch base with you soon. I tell people all the time, "going to school is like having a long distance relationship". This has been the hardest month for me. I don't know if I wasn't connecting to the class or I just had a lot of stuff on my mind, but when we connect I will share more with you. Hope you have a "Merry Holiday"!

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